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If you’ve had fall to your knees, crazy for each other type
of love, it’s hard to have anything but.
Years ago I went to a psychic who said to me, “You’ve had the best…Once
you’ve had that you can’t be with anyone who doesn’t have that same
connection. You need that same powerful
connection or better.” She went on to
describe the man I would marry. I was
hoping she would start describing Alexander Skarsgard and she did say a few
descriptive words that could very well be; older but not an old man (Her words
not mine), worldly, charismatic, educated and passionate. She went on to explain his personality;
Strong, good for me and kind. Followed by
a physical appearance of which I won’t discuss here but the physical appearance
was not exactly that of Alexander...bummer...She gave a few details of his
work…Again, I won’t share it now.
The explanation of this man I would be with was something I
wanted and needed to hear at the time. I was in
limbo with BigRed. She told me to stop
seeing him...In fact, scolded me and told me to run away, as far away as I
could get from him. “You are going to
have to distance yourself and I mean, hop on a plane and don’t come back. He’s too hard and you’re too soft. He will only continue to hurt you and he’ll
never let you go.” I knew this in my
heart to be true but I wanted to believe in us.
How could I not, we felt like destiny.
When we came together, it was love at first sight. We had such passion for each other, he made
me laugh and when things were good, they were great. Listening to her explain the alternative to
BigRed made me think and reconsider…Knowing I could have something and someone
I’ve always wanted was appealing.
Now, after recently going through a break-up, my eyes have opened
to who I really am, and what I really want.
This past break-up was maybe the easiest I have ever been through. No regrets, no shoulda, woulda, couldas and
the ending was final for both parties. A
clean, no fuss, no mess break…Something I’m not used to and grateful to have
experienced. I’m armed with the
knowledge; timing is everything and you can’t force these things. I’ll end today with my Mother’s long-standing advice. These are the only two words any male or female needs to hear in regard to relationships…Never
settle.
A few posts that mention BigRed:
Love at first sight
Love, Wine and the In Between
Love is Hard
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